Yeah fair, this tends to happen with almost any kink. The greatest shock of the past 15 years of culture is
The hipsters were 100% right
Terrible music. Awful. I fucking hated stomp clap hey. But they were 100% absolutely right that when something is 'obscure' it is better, and when it becomes mainstream it gets worse.
And yeah you have the right of it. The "Me Me Me". It was a video about how hot girls are and yet he made it about him:
I like [insert type of girl]
Instead of
[Insert type of girl] is hot
So it's a self-insert fantasy but not even a good one!
I wanna be a strong barbarian warrior male with a strong barbarian warrior woman.
King barbarian deserves a crown - that's the good shit. It fucking shocks me how rare that daydreaming fantasy is now. Or maybe it's still present, people just shut up about it lest they get harassed for it. We went from wanting to be Conan or Dark Schneider to people unironically being angsty about that dweeb in Xenoblades becoming a chad and knocking up three girls.