Why can't IRL women be BPD like in my vidyas? In games they're always so clingy it's cute

Why can't IRL women be BPD like in my vidyas? In games they're always so clingy it's cute

trust me you don't want that irl

Why are there no boyfriend-free girls

Trust me anon, you don't want a trashy and hot latina who's overly attached.... Said no one ever

/thread
Objectively my life is worse because of my ex with BPD.

Never played the game but if it's the same as OP pic, the game is written by a loser faggot.

Nice humblebrag homo, literally the dream rollercoaster that every man wants to experience

a buddy of mine had a crazy ex that "ended on good terms" with him, two years later he gets pulled into investigation for false rape charges thats so far claimed 2 years of his life in just legal bullshit.
just jerk off and get it out of your head. you DO NOT want it.

Good... don't

yes i do

She isnt latina she is Native American. Judy is latina

Well yeah of course but we can just cuddle while I play vidya on the screen in the living room? It doesn't even have to be co-op games, I can just do my SL1 dark souls runs while she looks over occassionally and asks me to overexplain everything to her. That sounds like heaven to me.

I don't have any social media. And she wouldn't have to call me, she could just live with me and cuddle while I play vidya.

You're right, I've never interacted with a BPD. Otherwise I'd be happy.

I would just show 130% interest at all times, because I'd sincerely love her.

I don't care to persuade you. Go ahead and make it happen and see if you enjoy it or not. It's really not my problem.

When I was single, I could come home and play vidya, do chores, cook myself dinner, whatever I wanted or needed.
Now as soon as I get home I have to do an hour and a half of emotional heavy lifting for my wife. "No sweetheart I don't know why you're always tired, yes sweetheart I'm sure your latest hobby will actually be fulfilling this time, no sweetheart I'm not cheating on you..."
I'm not going to pretend there aren't good times, nor am I going to act like I'm perfect. Hell, maybe I would be the insecure one if she were more independent and self-assured. But the bad times are pretty bad and pretty frequent.

I always ignored messages in cyberpunk.
Having to load an entirely new menu just to read some nonsense made me skip it.

"you think you do but you don't" applies very strictly to perceived desire of manic BPD partners
they will actively erode your life, your hobbies, your friendships and even your family ties until you both have nothing left

they cannot rear children, they often have zero ability to cook or clean for themselves, they have zero parental instict, you cannot 'fix them' short of lobotomizing them with anti-psychotics and creating an emotionless zombie that sleeps all day

you do not want this

I would just show 130% interest at all times, because I'd sincerely love her.

She would interpret that as you just putting on a show for her or just lying to get whatever it is she thinks you *actually* want from her. Then she will berate and gaslight you over it until you think you might actually be going crazy. You can't love your way through a BPDemon relationship, it's suicide

Well yeah of course but we can just cuddle while I play vidya on the screen in the living room?

Nope. A BPD woman will take that as you not being interested enough in her, and thus she will create ideas in her head that she's not good enough for you. This will then create all sorts of schizo shit in her head that she will take out on you in various ways, both physically and mentally. Also, be prepared for her to bring that exact scenario up of you "not caring and that video games are more important than her" every time there's an argument for the next 5 years.

Trust me, you are NOT prepared for a woman with BPD.

Just wait until you actually get with a girl that's BPD. You'll want to be single for the rest of your life right after due to how clingy and emotional they are.

why can't going out be an exciting adventure like dark souls

You enjoy that shit only because it isn't real and you can turn it on and off at will

I would just show 130% interest at all times, because I'd sincerely love her.

Look, you're a virgin, I get it, I had that sort of thinking too, but trust me, you'll get sick of it real fast and you will need time for yourself and your buddies.
That kind of thinking will just make you a miserable simp (no cap fr)

she could just live with me and cuddle while I play vidya

Anon you seriously don't understand how a bpd bitch operates.

You 3 have never been in a relationship. You have an infantile grasp on both relationships and women.

anon we're not trying to gate keep women from you.

Is this avoidable? Who would want to do this to their waifu

Anon Babble has never been in a toxic relationship

H-hot!

You dumb faggots are so desperate, holy shit. It's not something to want. My ex had NPD and it was a fucking nightmare.

This is literally just shitty writing. It's part of the ending for Phantom Liberty where V undergoes surgery that was arranged by NUSA and FIA. And apparently it was never conveyed to any of V's friends or lovers what he was gonna undergo.

people see 'woman with mental disability' and assume it's easy game compared to settling with some normie wage drone

NPD

the dreaded Norderline Personality Disorder
"What's the matter, can't stand the sight of a strong Nord woman?"
Many such cases

First relationship in HS. I was a nerd/goth and was dating a fat goth girl. She started strangling me out of a dead sleep fully on top of me (couldn't get her off for a solid 10sec since she was heavy + on top of me) because she thought I had been talking to some other girl. When she saw how horrified I was after it was all over she blamed it on switching into some type of fugue-state, which was really the worse part of it all, the excuse. Turns out she just had BPD. This is the reality. Take from it what you will but the one good thing was that I got so spooked from dating any girl close to that - that I ended up meeting/dating a Chinese exchange student in college who was probably the sweetest girl I've ever known. White girls have had a permanent -30 to diplomatic relations pretty much my whole life because of that relationship.

She had very cute dark nipples and a Venus flytrap tiny wet hairless pussy, but damn was it annoying to wake up next to her not knowing whether she'd be ultra femme and cuddly or start screaming about killing herself. In the end, I had to literally call the cops to get her away from my house without resorting to direct violence, which she certainly would have used against me.

I have never had a girlfriend. I have never had a woman show any interest towards me. I don't have any friends, I don't have a close relationship with my family, I don't even like my hobbies that much. I would dedicate my life to the first clingy girl that shows any kind of love towards me, and I would give my all to her. I don't care about anything else. The only reason you can talk like this is because you have stuff going on, I don't. I just want to use all of my free time, energy, and love on another person for the rest of my life.

Narcissistic. Retard.

yeah it's from the tower ending, the one where you go with arasaka and get scammed anyway

Narcissistic personality disorder

Quite possibly worse than a lot of the other mental illnesses, because this one makes them think that they AREN'T mentally ill.

BPD stands for Based Personality Disorder

The only reason you can talk like this is because you have stuff going on, I don't

we are telling you the stove is hot
you are telling us you want to touch the hot stove
you are going to get burned and be very upset

have fun, dumbdumb

As a person with a mother and sister that have BPD, you do not want to be around someone with BPD. They're fucking insufferable.

Ex-roommate just broke up with his gf who I was madly in love with when we lived together

She definitely also crushed back on me

I am now engaged but relationship has become passionless and unfulfilling. Tried multiple things to fix it but to no avail. Fiancé doesn't want to try couple's counseling.

Girl I am crushing on randomly messaged me out the blue a couple of days ago then ghosted my reply (she is also friends with my fiancé so imagine she got cold feet/spooked)

Wat do

Lol okay Chris Watts

You're gonna get pregnancytrapped by some bitch and go full family annihilator when she completely demolishes your internal harmony

I would dedicate my life to the first clingy girl that shows any kind of love towards me

You can literally just go to any church and find a 5/10 or 6/10 looking woman with a sweet personality if that's what you want.

N is next to B, it was reasonable.
Don't be mean!

You reek of desperation and its part of the reason for your current predicament. You aren't loved because you currently aren't worthy of love. Luckily, that's all within your control. You just have to stop being such a whiny simpy faggot to begin.

Leave. Don't cheat. Sort your shit out by yourself, you fucking loon.

You're so fucking dumb. The exact behavior is why you'll be a permavirgin

You'll get exhausted within weeks.

I am now engaged but relationship has become passionless and unfulfilling. Tried multiple things to fix it but to no avail. Fiancé doesn't want to try couple's counseling.

Stop wasting time and break up.

Wat do

Is your ex-roommate still your friend? If so, ask if he cares about you dating her. If he doesn't care, then go for it.

girls especially le crazy girls don't actually want what they say or make you do.
They don't know what they want aside from controlling and manipulating you.
If you are the standard faggot who just does what she says she will never fuck you and cheat on you with your dad.

you sound like you have a broken "pair bonding" instinct like 80% of current youth society
fuck the shit out of your """""crush"""" without telling your fiance and ruin your life when she inevitably finds out because you're a bumbling dumbass like everyone else
it's the only way forward and you know it

bpd gfs are hot because all they want is just a lot of intimacy

and validation, and to be constantly pampered, and to never experience any hurdles or setbacks, and for you to read their mind, and for you to completely provide for them so that they don't ever have to do anything remotely stressful ever again, and to despite having to provide for them and yourself, still be present 24/7 so they can't start to feel self-conscious, insecure or as if you are blowing them off

Cheating is for weak faggots, break up the relationship first

I would love some advice from you because I definitely want to change my situation. But I never understood the "stop being desperate" advice. I literally can't. The only way to fix it is to actually get a gf. What do?

Well what do I change?

I'm a zoomer, no one my age goes to church. I don't understand how it seems to be so easy for others to meet women. I have not spoken to a girl my age since I left school. I'm 21 now. In shape, have a job, have a car, okay social skills, and have no opportunity to even find a girl.

I was never intending to cheat on my fiance. Just haven't quite figured out an exit strategy yet. All my family is very fond of her and we just bought a house together. Funnily enough it seems like buying the house is what put the final nail in the coffin as shit fell apart after.

Is your ex-roommate still your friend? If so, ask if he cares about you dating her. If he doesn't care, then go for it.

He is but moved cities, thus the break up with his gf. I know it would be shitty of me to do anything without his blessing though.

Not true. My last relationship was very powerful and passionate. This one started off great but fizzled over time (probably very shortly after getting engaged). The feelings I have for this girl are stronger than my fiancé. How I feel around her is how I felt around my ex before.

I know. I've never cheated in my life, don't aim to start.

holy fuck you're a whiny bitch

Anon my first gf was a psycho bpd whore. I was just like you. I had the exact same thoughts as you. I can say, unequivocally, that I would go back and stop myself from having ever met her in the first place. I would rather have never known the touch of a woman than be suffering from the emotional damage she caused me. You need a reality check anon.

I'm a zoomer, no one my age goes to church.

Yes they do, you're not looking hard enough. Zoomers are the first generation in a century to be MORE devout than the previous. They're there, they're waiting for you, and they want to get married and have children.

basically this
bpd women are basically glorified housepets, the only functional relationship style with them is a heavy BDSM theme where you basically gaslight them into hardcore restraint lifestyle so you can just put them in a box when they're in killzone mode
"but that's domestic abuse anon!"
erm akshually it's kink lifestyle :^)
just be ready to replace them like batteries the moment they start trying to shit-test you (they will)

t. rotating door of bpd girlpets for the last 10 years

treat them like slaves and keep them emotionally at arm's reach

put yourself in situations to be around women without being weird. school or job-wise.
hell even half my hookups were from dating apps. the first one is always gonna be the hardest. sometimes you just need a really good bro to just run that extra mile for you and set you up painfully handheld.

no you DONT like pineapple on pizza because I DONT LIKE IT!

remember autistics cannot comprehend that other minds exist

woe is me, life is suffering

from a literal fetus zoomer

kys

american waddles into the thread

immediate food analogy

great contribution

Maybe some people LIKE eating shit, you ever think of that?

BPD cunts will also get violent with either other people (and you) or themselves out of envy, insecurity, neuroticism, etc.

and have no opportunity to even find a girl

The easy option is bars, but that's usually just for if you DON'T want an actual relationship. If you do want an actual relationship then you need to go to places that's full of women. So things like art classes like drawing/painting/pottery, cooking/baking classes, yoga/zumba/pilates classes, dance classes, book clubs.

All of these things usually have like a 1:10 ratio of men to women, so it's incredibly easy for you to meet women there.

Pineapple on pizza isn't widely acknowledged to be a hazard for your mental and physical health.

nope, smoking is unhealthy FOR YOU, for ME it will stop aging and double my dick size

pineapple on pizza is unironically good thoughbeit
being physically and verbally abused by some bitch for 5th time that month (and it's the first week of the month) because she had an argument in her head where she convinced herself that you were out to use and leave her is not

Have you actually gone through this? I'm a Anon Babblefag and could easily join a book club. Won't it be weird? Won't I stand out? Won't they immediately know "this guy is here to pick up girls?"

Also, how old are these women? I can't imagine many my age (21) joining these places

Women like that have other issues too. At best its anger issue. At worst it's Schizophrenia. And usually they have drug issues. No matter how good it feels for woman to be obsesed with you. Eventually glamour of it falls off. And you are with woman who might stab you. Stalk you. Break everything you own for no good reason. Or they are legitimately crazy. It's not fun to talk to someone when everything makes sense to them. But you have no idea what's going on.

both are shitty choices
in fact there's a reason sex floods your brain with reward chemicals that fool you into thinking you're doing something right with your life

this
i used to cut myself just because i was stressed thinking she was cheating on me, even when she was using her phone while we were together made me extremely suspicious of her

hot
it's not like a girl could hurt you

At worst it's Schizophrenia. And usually they have drug issues.

Tfw some young zoomer started hitting on me after chatting her up New Years

The more she talked about herself the less I wanted to talk to her

Schizo, BPD, drug issues, and on and on it went.

I know someone who was stabbed and killed by a bpd whore and she only did a couple years in jail.

Because in reality, this type of girl will make you want to kill yourself. The sex isn't worth it.

hello mr retard
knives, hammers, other blunt objects, heavy objects that can be thrown

I'm a Anon Babblefag and could easily join a book club. Won't it be weird? Won't I stand out? Won't they immediately know "this guy is here to pick up girls?"

Maybe at first, but if you can show to the class that you are actually interested and invested in the reading by regularly speaking up and giving inputs, then they will very quickly forget about those thoughts. The more outspoken and confident you appear, the less it will seem like you are just there to pick up chicks.

Also, how old are these women? I can't imagine many my age (21) joining these places

That depends entirely on the country, city, neighborhood, and so on. No one can really answer that because it differs so much from area to area.

Yes they do, you're not looking hard enough

See, my problem is that it would be a betrayal of my own Christian values. I'm sure 100% if I decided to walk down to the local Evangelical rave concert or Eshitcopal church I would find a shit ton of young single girls. The problem is that I'm devoted to my current historic and conservative church full of seniors, and I can't just leave them behind for fucking pussy. The "le go to church" thing only works if you're a lecherous scumbag who hops churches to pick up women. Fuck that.

just kick her over lol
are you really afraid of a tiny malnourished girl?

It’s even worse when you’re being raised by one, and she’s not even your real mom, and she makes it no secret that she hates you, but your dad is a pussy whipped bitch who pretends not to notice.

At least if you’re dating one, you can tell her to fuck off, and get a restraining order if need be.

waking up to a BPD woman who plunged a knife into your body while you were sleeping

Women rarely impulsively punch you when they lose their shit, they gather misandry energy in their fat deposits until they're mad enough to pour boiling sugar water on your face in your sleep or add a few drops of essential oil to your coffee

there's unironically nothing wrong with settling for a low wage normie drone wife that wants to have kids
it's very easy to shepherd a woman into trending your beliefs and interests if you have even the most mild assertiveness to your personality

b-but i want le quirky intelligent neurotic chungus gf!!!

those end in divorces that see 95% of your assets seized by a hebrew court or eternally childless "cat mom" homes where you both exist as redundant consumers until the day you die

both are shitty choices

not keeping your bpdemon locked up in leather while you sleep

did it to yourself tbqh
get her a cute straightjacket and train her to lock herself in at night

you're in the same fucking house as this volatile retard who experiences fever dreams and bouts of retardation where she believes you are out to harm her emotionally or physically because her brain doesn't function properly
you are sharing a bedroom with that person
falling asleep next to them

You took this from Twitter and you didn't even play the game to understand the context. Kill yourself.

I, like many others in this thread, had an insane BPD schizo cunt as my first girlfriend. Among the things she did

Lied about being broken up with her ex (they were still together our whole "relationship")

Started ANOTHER relationship with my friend and workmate, lied to me about it

Went absolutely ballistic and threatened to kill herself (before we even started dating) because I posted a photo of a night out with friends where I had my arm around one of my female friends

Threatened to kill herself practically every single time I tried to break up with her

One time faked killing herself, forcing me to call 911 and drive to her house, only to get there and find she had made the whole thing up and I woke up her whole fucking family (And her boyfriend who was staying over, which is how I found out they hadn't broken up) like a retard

Cheated on me with at least 4-5 other guys throughout our "relationship" (that I know of)

I still hate this cunt with a passion. It was like 10 years ago that we met. She tried to message me after I broke up with my ex on fucking LinkedIn of all places since I have her blocked everywhere else. No fucking clue how she found out I broke up with my ex. She has sent me like 3 connection requests on LinkedIn since then.

bpd girl and schizoid boy is peak pairing because the boy is so emotionless he anchor's the girl's mood swings

This. BPD headcases are unreal. And since a lot of them are women, when they have to bear responsibility for their actions, they'll just employ tactical crocodile tears and spin a tale that it was all your fault.

Anon Babblebro SPOTTED
what are you reading

anon
yuo are 28 year old incel
yuo must choose
insane, clingy bpd whore that will make your life exciting but also ruin it
or
distant aspie gf who gets lost in her hyperfixations and is boring as fuck but predictable and safe

I can't believe so many people in this thread have had bpd gfs. Where did you even meet them?

My ex wife used to send me these exact kind of messages any time I was out, even when it was planned for me to go see friends.
Fuck, she even did it after we divorced.
A key element of borderline personality disorder is self-sabotage. As soon as things are looking remotely good in life, they will subconsciously set it motion plans to ruin it regardless of consequences.

We settled down, got a house and a dog that she wanted. I got her health more in order. I'm in a good career that affords time together and enough money to cover all our needs. With all that life is good and ready for a happy ever after.
Then the idea she doesn't wasn't me anymore kicks in and so she wants what she can't have, another guy behind my back.
Caught it and got evidence. Called her out on it and off she went.

I'd say the relationship was a mistake, but I learned a lot and personally developed along the way. I was still foolish to commit to that for potentially forever. I thought it would fix things, or at least I would be strong enough to live in anxious misery.
Learned exactly what I don't want and have something much healthier in my life now.

they are the majority of women sadly.

sounds like what you should be doing is keeping them on a short leash
if she's not in the room with you she should be tied up and gagged (lovingly) and waiting for you to return
the fact that you're willing to do something which SEEMS illegal (if she didn't love it) should assure her that you love her deeply
after a few months like that you can switch to keeping her in a cage when you're gone, then a locked room, and eventually take her out with you.

b-b-b-bubbubut I want a fat useless retard at home because I'm so stupid even a mildly intelligent woman can run circles around me and ruin my life

Holy retard. Do you realize how genes work? About 50% of the genes that go to your kids will come from that fat dumb cunt you call your wife

I don't think concertinas have wires
they're like harmonicas inside

I mostly encountered them when I was hanging out in an "alternative" crowd, they usually don't require a lot of courting and are eager to show interest.

I used to attract a lot of scene girls when I was in my early 20s.

Re-reading Tiny Habits for the 4th time (only self help book that's actually useful, everything else is a scam. Yes I know self help itself is mostly a scam this one is actually good I swear).

Almost done, after I'll read Whatever by Houllebec since it's been on my backlog for a while

Is it better to be an incel for life or get a BPD gf? Not that I would know, I'm the truest of all cels, but makes me wonder...

you can just pick of them up for free at your local psych ward

In the exact same boat right now except I'm not even waiting for her to cheat, I'm just leaving. I can't even play games with a friend without her getting jealous and threatening to kill herself or crying in the other room.

Hey anons, I have a question.
What happens if you make like a man from 1954 and just give your BPDemon a strong backhand across the mouth when she starts pulling her shit? Followed by spanking her if she doesn’t calm the fuck down?
Did we have it figured out back then?

This, been there. Anyone who disagrees hasn't been there yet

When you're young and dumb (freshly out of highschool) you have not learned the signs of these psycho cunts. Once you get stung by them once you become very quick to identify them in future. The only issue is that in doing so you will forever carry the mental damage from the long list of bullshit they have inflicted upon you. Some are lucky enough to never encounter them. BPD girls are like polio in that respect.

for me, it's two bpd family members who ruined my life growing up

self-help and houellebecq

no wonder you aren't having sex. women want a postmodern romantic hero — perhaps you should take up a work of this variety to cultivate that persona. something by Thomas Ruggles Pynchon, perhaps?

What happens if you make like a man from 1954 and just give your BPDemon a strong backhand across the mouth when she starts pulling her shit? Followed by spanking her if she doesn’t calm the fuck down?

You get arrested because we're no longer in 1954 and in fact you should revere women and believe them at their word so they don't even need you to actually do that to them to spread the lie that you did.

Nearly 75% of people diagnosed with BPD are female.

they love it but will eventually turn you in when they think you have the upper hand.

here

after reading this thread maybe i should stick things out with my boring but stable fiance. holy fuck i do not want to enter the dating world again after reading this thread

You can't out-DV a BPDemon, if she figures out she's losing she'll hang the kids while you're at work

They are clingy if you are attractive or so I've heard

How the fuck do I get a gf I have no fucking clue
I'm being completely serious, can someone give me a step by step guide written for an autist? My standards are really low, I don't care about what type of girl she is as long as she loves me

be yourself :^)

And? Just because you got things going for you and want to be picky about shit doesn't mean others people wouldn't enjoy what you don't.

even fat or low value girls have too high of standards and would never settle for an autist that needs a woman guide. Its over.

I read Gravity's Rainbow for a couple of hours while severely sleep deprived and had no clue what was going on. I'll probably give it another try after my french incel novel

download tinder
try dating websites

Just be yourself and someone will talk to you, worked for me

No fucking clue how she found out I broke up with my ex.

Your friends. She is stalking you through them, they know she is stalking you through them, but they're okay with it because she'll fuck them. The worst mistake you can make is fooling yourself into thinking you can trust bros. Behind every cluster B demon that comes back to haunt you is a friend secretly ratting you out for easy pussy.

they’ve evolved past the simple tactics our ancestors used

So the only solution is sending her to a shrink and getting her dosed up with so many mind numbing prescriptions she’s a zombie?

What happens if you make like a man from 1954 and just give your BPDemon a strong backhand across the mouth when she starts pulling her shit?

There's a couple of options.

1) she will harbor it and get her revenge physically in some way
2) she will harbor it and get her revenge mentally in some way
3) she will call the police and tell them what you did
4) she will call the police and lie to them about what you did by exaggerating(BONUS: may even include rape accusations)
5) she will threaten suicide
6) she will cheat on you

It could be any one of these, any combination of these, or all of them.

shitposting aside, GR really is brilliant. won't help you have sex (at least not in my experience) but reading it is probably just as pleasurable

have friend

gets bpd gf

starts off fine

after a few weeks it starts

he needs to spend all of his time on her

even if she's at work and he's home he has to be constantly talking to her

if he tries to do anything that isn't about her she threatens to kill herself

he finally stops being a cuck and opens up steam when she's at work

she sees him log into steam from her phone

for the next few hours she does nothing but call and text him, literally thousands of texts and hundreds of calls

she tries to kill herself

ends up making herself retarded and she can't walk anymore

he finally dips

and getting her dosed up with so many mind numbing prescriptions she’s a zombie?

pretty much
and then you gotta make sure she stays on that shit

I don't care about what type of girl she is as long as she loves me

Church. Get yourself a nice homely woman.

no the soloution is to leave her alone with her cats and drug addict one night stands. pharmjewticals are part of the reason she is so psychotic.

I just want someone to spend all of my time with, that's called love

That's a 15 year old's idea of love. Eventually you will learn that love is a verb, love is an action, end of story.

God commanded you to be fruitful and multiply. You are not "betraying your Christian values for pussy", you are fulfilling your duty.

No one says you have to leave permanently - the man is the spiritual head of the household, so all you have to do is demonstrate to her that your denomination is the closest to the teachings of Jesus and bring her back with you.

Holy retard. Do you realize how genes work?

every living human as of this exact moment consists of thousands of different genetic hereditary lines due to chaotic outbreeding among peasantry

genetics only matter insofar as avoiding miscegenation and even then it's a crapshoot, only noble bloodlines have any purity worth worrying about
and nobility isn't going to be engaging in breeding discourse on a tibetan basket weaving forum

stay in your lane, fuck some fat hog, roll the dice - the "boring" fat stay-at-home hog's parents-parents were probably field workers or soldiers with plenty of serviceable genetics anyway

Anon Babble has the best Anon Babble threads

Don’t project your experience onto others you guys probably didn’t try hard enough. I’ll be better when I got my BPD gf

beautiful puppy disorder

used to constantly obsess over getting a gf

even a 2/10 fat normie starbucks bitch

realize how much freedom i have to do whatever i want when i want

how i’d have to restructure around someone else’s life

drama

more drama

every woman i know at work even the old cunts are embroiled in drama

immediately lose interest

realize over half of the zoomer male population has also given up approaching women

I call it the Way of the Walking Chud. Are zoomer men like me just pussies, or are zoomer women so batshit insane it’s not worth dealing with?

we schizoid "boys" don't socialize in general, so it's very unlikely for a BPD girl to even find one of us in the wild
also a lot of us are straight up asexual

in bed

wake up

gf is crying

ask what's wrong

said she had a dream that I cheated on her

30 minutes of comforting her later I learn that this is actually my fault and I should kill myself

BPD "people" are not human

OOOOH WHAT YOU SAY

genes don't matter it's all chaos

I see, I'm talking to a Anon Babbletard who thinks evolution is jewish.

This. Just because you couldn't tame or handle the ride doesn't mean I can't.

I can fix her
I can maker her happy
I can handle her at her worst
I can appreciate her crazy antics

did you know: the 'BP' in 'BPD' stands for bi-polar, meaning she is prone to random and extreme mood swings that have precisely nothing to do with you or anything else in her environment
you'll wake up one day and she'll be spiraling in a depressed rage and literally everything you say or do will make it worse
she will come home from work one day and decide she hates your video game and simply throw them away and then act like you're evil for disagreeing with her
your interest in her is irrelevant, she isn't a dog with poor training; she is an adult human with a severe mental illness
she is not "quirky", "clingy" or "needy"
she is "broken", "insane" and "violent"

welcome to bpd creaturas
80 years ago they would've been lobotomized for being possessed by satan

Are zoomer men like me just pussies, or are zoomer women so batshit insane it’s not worth dealing with?

it's just the civil rights movement catching up to society
we live in a very brief flicker of human history where women are wrongfully not kept segregated from male workspaces and exchanged as marital property

i'm a big gay baboon

haha i can put words in your mouth too, that's epic

You must claim them from a weaker man

break up with you cause you're "always on that damn game

Why wouldn't you be playing with her?

No.. anon... It stands for borderline personality disorder....

wife dreams I cheated on her

we have a good laugh over it

for the rest of the day she teases me every time she sees a hot guy on tv, saying she's going to fuck him in her dreams to get revenge

I'm lucky bros, my wife is mentally stable

I fucking hate humble bragging ITT, oh noe my BPD girl loves me and is overly attached oh how horrible she said some mean words she didn't mean oh noe, oh she's calling me to ask if I'm alright

Pic rel

bpd is developed from insecurity and rejection/negligence. women are a lot more catty and social so they play with fire more

it's not strawmanning if your arguments are actually weak and retarded to the extreme

Needs breeding correction

Stop watching cops

He is right though that they too are liable to suffer from extreme and unpredictable moodswings, and more importantly, decided that things are either 100% perfect, amazing and great, or the worst ever and life is a living hell and no one ever allows them a second of being happy and you're to blame.

she's calling me [several hundred times]

emended for veracity's sake

Chat, is this true?
Is the zoomer male going to experience an extreme breaking point and force the pendulum back so hard it revokes women’s rights for hundreds of years?

this is epic amazeballs until you're driving 90mph on the freeway and she starts hitting you and grabbing the wheel because you smiled at the waitress at dinner

Just be handsome and charismatic it's that easy

Of course, but that's what borderline is supposed to signify: they are always on the verge of snapping

Americans have never experienced war and it shows. Well we're about to, and trust me that the first thing to go is women's rights. The women give them up willingly because they know they need protection when shtf.

rage bait

Kek, are you afraid of a woman hitting you?

I think the borderline is more to do with the lack of nuance.
Everything is either amazing, or it's the worst ever. Nothing is ever in between. Nothing is alright. If it's not amazing, it's horrible.
And it's a big part of why BPD headcases are fatiguing at best.

It's more like

oh no she pulled a knife on me

oh no she locked herself in the bathroom and is threatening to kill herself (again)

oh no she stole my friend's anxiety medication

oh no she told everyone she knows that I raped her

oh no she mixed pills and alcohol (again)

your peasant DNA doesn't fucking matter, anon. sorry if that upsets you

i always thought i had bpd, i had every symptom. deep insecurity, fp, spiraling, self destructive tendencies, i did it all.
but i never snapped at anyone or was crazy, i always bottled up how it felt. i dont know what i am

That's literally the absolute and utter polar opposite of what young men should do

neurotic and self destructive but you don't have a vagina so there's no reason to give it a quirky special label

Hmm yes you're correct

not all bpd cases are outwardly violent/violent towards the other. a lot of them are
but a lot of them are self-loathing (well, all of them inherently are self-loathing and insecure) and will focus primarily on themselves in a ploy to farm validation. hence why a lot of these manipulative fucks don't only try to murder others but fake or attempt suicide for attention (to feel wanted and needed)

It's not. Close the phone nigga, just close your phone. How is BPD real? Don't reply, don't give her attention, take your free time in strides

Do not do this.
Its either your dms are empty for months on end while putting yourself out there.
Or you end up pulling someone who has a character limit of 10 per message

Download dating app

It all single moms

Nope I left

BPD women aren't "clingy," or if they are, there's way more to it than that. They're addicted to drama, conflict, arguments, tension and feed off your negative emotions. They sense your desperation and weaponize it against you. They know ho to make you jealous and will do it intentionally. If arguing or hours and hours ever begins tiring you, tough luck, it's energizing for BPD women. It will never stop.

I'm 6'4 and I have a STEM degree. Sorry about your diarrhea genetics though.

Spending all your time with someone else isn't love, it's desperation and homogenisation of two people. Not only is it mentally unhealthy to do so it's also completely unsustainable outside whatever fantasy you've created in your own head. I've been in a very happy relationship for 14 years with my current partner because we're both functional and independent people with our own interests. You need that aspect so you have something to actually share with the other person. Someone utterly dependent on you at all times means they're dysfunctional on their own and that is incredibly frustrating. You need to be able to share responsibilities, you need to be able to rely on the other person without your direct involvement all the time. You need balance anon.

I've had girlfriends who simultaneously wanted to freeload off my income and investments the second they knew I had them while also taking issue with the fact that I would work 12 hour shifts regularly. They didnt like that I talked to female friends that Id had for 10 years before meeting them. Got upset if I didnt want to go with them to every social event they attended or if they werent invited to mine even when the event held absolutely zero interest for me or them. Being with someone insecure means you waste a tremendous amount of time placating your partner for no reason. Its why those people cant maintain a stable relationship longterm.

*If arguing for hours

you are fulfilling your duty

Anon my duty is to my church. I have certain responsibilities to fulfill and I am relied upon greatly. I have no intrinsic "duty" to marry. In many cases it is better to be celibate. Anyways the betrayal comes from the fact that you are necessarily attending a church under false pretenses, to meet women. Attending another church, hovering up some girl and ferrying her back to your original church is just plain deceitful. No good comes from that.

demonstrate to her that your denomination is the closest to the teachings of Jesus and bring her back with you

I've tried this before and it was a shitshow. In theory, you're right, but in practice any woman who will abandon the faith of her family is just a whore with weak willpower. 99% of women are already retards who mold themselves to the whims of whatever guy they happen to be dating. A woman who loves men more than God does not a Christian household make.

self destructive based on the attention from others. its from getting treated poorly in the past. its a personality disorder

yeah and my dad works for nintendo, sorry you're such a loser shortie

t. 6'5

Im super cool and tall and smart and successful and..

And yet, here you are.

Why is your mother so short and stupid? Don't you hate her?

Fucking hate this threads I’m a kissless 30 year old virgin and you guys are bragging about “my relationship was to much”

why is this the only ragebait format you fags can use

Don't you hate her?

suffer permanent emotional damage

don't suffer permanent emotional damage

man I wish I didn't suffer permanent

emotional damage...

WAAAAAAAAAAAAAH BUT YOU HAD SEX FAGGOT STFU!!!!!

Die.

don't do it please. I still get 30 drunken calls every other week asking if we can get back together and yelling about we are meant to be and even though she thinks im a piece of shit shes still wiilling to forgive me for letting her leave me

why are you so tired after working a 24 hour shift with no sleep, cant we talk for like 3 or 4 hours before you go to bed, OH MY GOD YOU ASSHOLE IF YOU ARE GOING TO KEEP FALLING ASLEEP JUST GO TO BED FUCK YOU

why arent you offering to pay my bills, i know i didnt ask but you know i just bought a second vehicle and have 1300$ a month in car payments, you should've been a man and offered

hey when we get married im gonna wanna move so you need to start saving for when we move and you have to pay for our place.

hey i just decided to get a random std test teehee and i have herpes did you cheat on me? '

i know im the one who keeps leaving you when i get drunk but you are a gigantic asshole for letting me leave you you piece of shit why wont you take me back

i know i delete every single message and notification as soon as i get it but thats just cause i want to, you arent allowed to do it though and if you do it means you are cheating on me

I park my car behind a neighbors house because im afraid she will show up at my house if she thinks im home. I quit showing up to a job we shared and got fired, i stopped talking to all of our mutual friends and she still wont leave me alone

Anyone who disagrees with this is a beta virgin faggot lol.

You need to have something to offer before you can give that to someone else brother.

Literally eat better, literally go to a gym for a few months, literally develop any kind of skill. The rest follows.

Is that game still shit?

What do you mean? Just date any latina woman

youre lucky, my ex gf would have tried to fuck some guy to get back at me, and if i god mad and argued with her about it she would have hurt herself and lied and said i hit her or some shit

go to the gym

this blanket advice is so retarded
women don't care about ugly men with muscles and this just sets up so many people for failure, your body doesn't matter if you have an ugly face

I genuinely and wholeheartedly do not feel the seemingly innate biological desire for love, affection or companionship. I do desire having people to talk to, but actual relationships beyond friendship are something I have never been remotely interested in.
Sometimes I think it's a curse, threads like this remind me it definitely has a silver lining.

then don't make the same mistake your dad did. Claiming genes are lulrandum is bullshit and there's more nuance to it than "don't fuck shitskins"

don't get mad at the homies, bro

youtu.be/Qz3R2o8vG7M

this is true. money is the real equalizer for ugly fucks.

Get a “Facebook official” GF

won’t let me go past 2nd base and doesn’t even like that after the first few months

never have sex, admits she’s not attracted to me and never really intended to have sex, break up

emotional damage AND sexless

Yay me

People really think bpd is hot shit when it’s legitimately the most soul draining shit ever, I wouldn’t wish a bpd girl on the person I hate the most

are you afraid of reading?

What's the difference between someone with bpd and someone who just has a quick temper and gets angry or upset easily?

Kek I had a gf like this in high school. I didn't really care about her and just used her for sex so I always viewed her tantrums as funny af and me and my friends and I would laugh about them for hours

there's more nuance to it than "don't fuck shitskins"

there really isn't
"stay in your lane" has been our breeding principle for thousands of years, you're only just now seeing the horrors of widespread racemixing from straying into liberal practices

"No opposite gender friends" is a reasonable rule. It's not insecurity, it's just respect and risk minimization. That was the way it was for hundreds of years and now we're supposed to invite needless complication into our lives because it's heckin 2000 + 25.

if you think it's a risk, you don't trust your SO

You wouldn't get a prenup if you 100% trusted the person you marry. Yet you probably would.

break up with highshool girlfriend of 4 years during college, found her insufferably immature.

it was basically mutual we were both pretty retarded at this point but I learned a lot about myself and wanted us both to be happy

4 years later we're at the same event unexpectedly

She looks great but her personality has not changed at all

have sex multiple times over the next few weeks

she wants to get back together, I make it very clear I dont think it would be a good idea. We end up agreeing we shouldn't continue hooking up if she wants more than that.

a month later a dude knocks of my door and punches me in the head before incel running away without saying anything

she was engaged

she attended the event because she had been keeping tabs on me the entire time in secret

he found out because she'd apparently been miserable and she told him I seduced her at this event after he pressed her for information

she asks if she can stay at my place for a while

mfw

>stay in your lane
You do that. Have fun.

bpd is the absence of an emotional middle ground
most of the resultant complexes are from how that causes them to view themselves
cyclical destructive self-hatred and manic narcissism is not good for your psyche

no one my age goes to church.

free real estate

First, think about what set them off. Is it reasonable? If their reaction proportionate, scaling up relative to their bigger-than-average temper? If so, that's a good sign.
Second, do the anger spats ever seem to drag in without end, even when you're trying your hardest to de-escalate? Does the anger sometimes quickly resolve after a long period of time independent of effective communication? That's more like BPD. They have uncontrollable mood swings which will dictate how your interactions go.
Does she sometimes seem to ENJOY arguing? BPD.

there's 0 reason for a straight male and female to be friends unless they wanna fuck each other or want to keep each other for monkey branching backup purposes. i have never seen this happen either one time where one party or the other didn't have some ulterior motive to keep the """friendship""" together

Please get a bpd then make a thread about it later, I will enjoy reading it on the shitter

Okay okay fine, what mental disorder SHOULD I look for in a girl?

Autism or depression, just like Anon Babble

there is such a thing as flourishing under such complacency and not rocking the fucking boat is how we made it to this point in the first place

Its not about having muscles, its about taking care of yourself and being involved in things that make you interesting as an individual. Eating well and exercising is also incredible for your metal health and motivation. Most dudes who think they're ugly don't even have particularly bad genetics, they just dont take care of themselves at all. Not wearing a stained anime t-shirt and shaving your neckbeard goes a long way. The other killer is having absolutely zero skills, ambitions or interests outside of things that indicate you're a miserable slob.

tl;dr just don't be slobbish. There's no magic bullet or secret technique that makes a woman interested in you, it's about living a functional and (reasonably) happy existence.

So angry people just get unreasonably angry at reasonable things, whereas bpd people get angry and upset at everything because they somehow enjoy feeling miserable?

What I don't understand is that people genuinely think a guy and a girl can't have a platonic friendship
I've had plenty of those, girls I trust that I talk to often and get along with really well without having an interest in them and they probably don't have an interest in me either, it's normal, girls will really drop their guard around you if you prove yourself to be that kinda guy for them because it's refreshing for them to know a guy they can talk to that doesn't wanna fuck them for once. That means you two will get really close and the girls I've been like this with are girls I remember very fondly.

What makes you interesting to women is your face and height, not some gay hobbies or lifting heavy objects. Are you six-years-old?

Only 75%? Doesn't seem that bad

I'm assuming you are either a kissless virgin or just trolling

Sorry even though weve been platonic friends for decades I have a girlfriend now so we can never speak to each other again

You are insane.

Sounds like you've given up. Keep making excuses and blaming anything but the things that are actually within your control though Im sure that will work eventually.

Just got out of one and yeah, guys, seriously don't take it lightly it's not what you think. I was hoping for the real life equivalent of a yandere, instead I got a very insecure girl who I couldn't read at all and fluctuated between impossibly nice and horrifically callous. Also she had no future, no hobbies besides what I did, no interests outside of what I liked, no career, no education, nothing. Never again. Just a silly normie next time please, I don't care if she likes makeup and watches FOTM movies on Disney+ just a normal girl next time please.

There's literally a whole genre of support books specifically for victims of BPD breakups
the feeling of getting rugpulled by a girl with BPD is quite possibly the biggest emotional low I've had in my life
they're like fucking heroin, the first hit is amazing then you just plummet
i still have nightmares about that breakup and its been 6 years
you really think you want it, but you don't

Wall of text incoming
Alright anon I'm gonna give you the same advice I give my friends and work buddies that are going thru your situation
If you have no real ties to your current job, lease, and can be apart from your family for a bit, you need to try a summer job in a place like Montana, Wyoming, Colorado, or even beach places like Florida or Hawaii if you are young and in shape like you claim you are. There are companies online such as Xanterra that are always hiring for upcoming summer positions in fucking amazingly beautiful places, my first experience was working a vacation resort in Glacier National Park in Montana and not only did I meet my trad fiancé there but I went thru probably 15 chicks before her in the span of 3 months. Yes, I was a manwhore, shame me all you want but you don't have to do the same obviously; there are just SO many chicks at these places, you're quite literally drowning in pussy.
The jobs are easy, low skill bullshit, like cooking for the tourist restaurants, room cleaning, renting out and setting up kayaks/canoes, doing boat tours, etc.
Even if you have the BAREST of social skills you will be surrounded by active, beautiful women who love the outdoors and want to actually DO things outside unlike most modern women who only want to watch Netflix and doomscroll. It leveled up my game just being around all of these girls, going to bonfires with them and the guy friends I made, hiking up gigantic mountains, camping beneath the stars...
It's an experience I recommend to anybody, especially since you're young, before you NEED to actually get a good career. The time to apply is NOW, April is peak hiring season for summer, but if you have a lease you can't break just do a winter at a ski resort or wait til next year. Best of luck.

Sounds like you've given up.

No, my friend, I am just trying to help you save time. No girl who has shown interest in me has ever cared about my hobbies. It has always been about my physical appearance.

BPDemons will:

always pretend to be the victim, never accept being the offender and the abuser (unless they're having a suicidal breakdown), will self-victimize at the slightest opportunity

go through cycles of valuation and devaluation of you as a person, go from loving you deeper than anyone else to being incredibly cruel and vicious against you for no reason

force you into walking on eggshells because anything and everything could set them off, you're stuck monitoring their mood 24/7

weaponize your empathy and care for them against you

BPD is just woman autism

None of your complains about BPD angels sound legitimate, like they call you names? We're on 4channel dot org

One is an anger management issues, which I assume is hard for those people, maybe they have stronger emotional reactions to things on a physical level or have been conditioned to react in that way from experience as a defense mechanism. There is always a very clear and usually vaguely rational trigger for those outbusts and otherwise those people are perfectly capable of other emotions and functioning normally.

BPD is pathological and irrational. Their emotional state is unstable and swings dramatically without a discernable or rational trigger. There is a manufactured and calculated self destructive aspect of their behavior that is utterly bewildering from the outside. A huge telltale sign is that the person themselves will be completely unable to communicate their emotional state, explain their feelings or rationalise their behavior in hindsight.

The only people who want a BPD woman are the ones who have never experienced it before. For many of the anons in this thread, they've probably never been with any woman before, I don't say this to insult them. I don't want to say that they need to learn the hard way, but if several men who have had that experience are telling you to run like hell, and you're still seriously considering the matter, what else can be done?
I want three years of my life back.

how does she know he is playing on steam?

yeah bro you totally don't want a 10/10 super hot girl obsessed with you and only you who only needs some basic human decency to fall in love with you ot's so bad haha

FUCK OFF

Every man with a BPD whore thinks their demon is special. Every single one.

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try novel rageb8 instead

giwtwm

obsessed with you

BPDemons aren't obsessed with you. They're obsessed with what they can get from you, how they can use you, how they can use you to validate their unending desire to be a poor little victim; but refusing any solutions and real help given to them. Then once they've had their fill, they'll discard you in the most cruel way they can imagine. Fuck your brother, send you the video of it, post it on your social media and call the cops on you, telling them you raped her.

They are special, e(special)ly insufferable. If anything this thread demonstrates that they are all extremely similar and no amount of love or attention will ever be enough. They are emotional vampires and physical leeches with a sociopathic lack of introspect.

Aiming low from the start almost never makes sense unless you are absolutely certain that you can't do anything about your circumstances. Without a justified level of certainty, you're just being a defeatist.

This. Braggers ITT don't know how good they got it

Autistic girls are just cute little weirdos who generally mean well
BPD girls are calculated monsters who may or may not be even remotely in control of what they're doing.

BPD girls sound like the average Anon Babbleirgin

Women, am I right?

If having (1) girlfriend is a brag I have some bad news for you. Otherwise just you fuckin wait till it happens to you.

Can men be BPD? What's their version of it?

They can.
It's just a bit more rare.

Steam has a mobile app

It won't happen to me, I'm 27 and never had a gf. If you got a BPD girl you're lucky

Her fiancé was attractive and successful and was currently supporting her pseudo luxury gremlin lifestyle I have no explanation for why she'd want to fuck around with me again.

It's possible in my opinion
But you both need to be entirely outside of each other's strike zone for it to work, if either of you is remotely sexually attractive to the other person it's extremely hard to make work

men have schizoid personality disorder instead

being women hating incels who make up horror stories about bpd girls even though they never even met one

men immediately get sent to jail when they do the crazy shit women do, unless they are wealthy or extremely attractive

Its basically the same except its a more of a swing between depression and anger and usually they dont get into a position where they can repeatedly attach themselves to a female. Men tend to just tolerate the femmecel deeper into the insanity.

Maybe your Reddit fairy tale was a little too unrealistic.

schizoid raised by a bpd mum

I don't understand why any white man would date down like this, I mean why put up with this crazy bullshit for brown hole? You could put up with this crazy bullshit for white hole and you're not gonna convince a latinx to abort the mutt baby

It says a lot about the quality of the men here that they'd rather be taken for a ride and be physically, emotionally, and financially abused by a BPD vampire than simply be alone until they can find an actually decent woman.
Dare I say pathetic?

wtf? that sounds amazing.

Nah, that shit sounds plenty realistic to me, situation-wise. Typical BPD grill behavior. Except I'm pretty sure anon is telling it from the wrong perspective and he's actually the cuck ding-dong puncher.

HOLY BASED!

BPDs start out relationships by idealizing the person they're dating, which means they're gonna basically be an incredibly affectionate lover, molding themselves to all your needs and desires and so on. You start out by thinking you've finally met your soulmate, your true love.

Why would I want to be friends with a girl? Are you retarded? That's what guys are for. You just described having a gf that doesn't want to fuck you. Am I meant to be jealous?

Those are the two sides of the same coin, buddy

damn anon... i hope you find love in this life

Really wasn't my finest moment. She never mentioned she had a partner but she certainly was sleeping with other guys at the same time as me.
Id be too much of a pussy pacifist to do that if it were me, Id just be sad and leave if I got cheated on.

raised by a bpd mum

hey it's me

are you not a human being either?

Am male, diagnosed as both BPD and schizoaffective. I make ROM hacks that have been banned from places.

Lots of assmad girls in this thread lol

a Anon
because holy fuck does it seem like some of you fags are bpd or other cluster b type cases

are BPDs completely loyal to you though? If they're the type to cheat then that's obviously a dealbreaker but i had the impression that these kind of people were 100% loyal and that alone would make it worth it in my opinion

BPD moms are the single most soul destroying experience for a man and I genuinely hope you're both ok.

What kind of romhacks?

absolutely not loyal.
they cheat like crazy and accuse you of doing it.

Right ? hahah
They should leave their discord at the end of every post so I don't accidently add them
Fucking crazy women haha

are BPDs completely loyal to you though?

Fuck no. They will inevitably split on you, devalue you into the depths of hell and cheat on you.
Then they'll try to get back together with you some time later, after breaking your heart

It depends on the person. In general it's an emotional rollercoaster that leaves you wanting to commit suicide no matter what.

Yes they cheat and they make it your fault

wtf i HATE bpds now

i'm just fine as a disabled schizo possibly facing homelessness

For brief period maybe, then they'll find a way to inflict the greatest possible emotional pain upon you. Usually by moving onto the next victim

the anal and blowjobs were phenomenal though I have to admit

The worst part is that I love her, and that she does try her best. It would've been easier for me if I hated her and we were on horrid terms.

even from that distance, you can tell she looks like pic related. completely understandable why he's not running away

baddesthacks.net/?p=4615

What's the source on the pic?

Mass Effect 1
youtu.be/KzkIMP1Sumk?t=57

Yeah I'm retarded, forgot I can just search up the character

Anyway fun thread, goodbye lads o7

Where do you even find BPDs, how common are they

God, the lighting in the legendary edition is complete dogshit. What the fuck happened?

with a bpd girl every day is a fun new adventure :D

right in this thread
that's why we're on autosage

God I need this I'd hug it out and tell her everything is fine, loving cuddles into sex.

If you have a BPD girl you can't fucking suffer

They're notorious for cheating. If you got into a relationship with one, it's likely that they were cheating on an existing partner with you and just didn't tell you.

It's called going to jail