I'm so glad I spent all those years playing videogames

I'm so glad I spent all those years playing videogames

*dies*

I'm so glad I'm going to finally fucking die

try to talk to a woman and make a family

she loudly rejects me and some zoomies take a video of the entire thing

i'm done trying this was the most recent attempt

The shit part isn't dying, it's no one taking care of you 15 years before you die of old age if you have a shit family or no family at all

I know this might sound crazy but you can do both

The only people who use Facebook are in their 50s+

me on the right except I am not smiling

shut the fuck up, boomer OP needs to lifestyle shame and tell their kids to get off of their online multiplayer game and go out and socialise with the local boy who eats pebbles

The guy in the right is sad because he went bald at a young age

I wished I would have posted more Instagram and X screenshots on Anon Babble

dies

I wish I spent more time posting AI generated slop on Facebook.

Unironically my greatest goal in life is to finish my Steam library

I'm so glad I was... really high up in the sky for 2 minutes...

talks to a woman and immediately wants to "make a family"

yeah, that's called rape, bud.
no wonder the zoomers were filming you. you were commiting a felony.

This is what I don't get about people who make these art pieces. Like, nobody thinks their whole is just their hobby. You don't see this used against people who listen to music or watch movies. Why do people keep singling out gamers every time?

some zoomies take a video of the entire thing

What the fuck, dude?Please be kidding

So did he proooompt "fulfilling life experience" or specifically "landing with a parachute while a couple kisses"? I dunno how much the AI invents

why is the left guy thinking about megaman parachuting

It's a helmet, he was a paratrooper
He shot the two other people

i went parachutin-ACK

death is scary even for content people who achieved great things

Plot twist, the guy on the left is remembering all the scenarios he played in video games, and the retard on the right is wage slaving his life away for shits like family and vacations.

AI slop

shitter screencap of AI slop

kys

My grandpa lived a great life but he's now in a retirement home. His children and grandchildren visit him on average every other day, but that still means most of his time is spent on a bed watching TV
The moral of the story: Don't have a stroke, it fucking sucks

Being an incel fucking sucks, everyone is reminding every day how shitty my life is for not having a gf, not even in Anon Babble I'm safe from this

well, have you?

When I was almost-dead in hospital this year, all I could think is how I hated to work all day instead of playing more video games.

I'm almost 40 and I spent most most my teens playing Ragnarok Online for literally thousands of hours. I have 0 regrets about this and if I could go back I would do it again.

Like, nobody thinks their whole is just their hobby

haha yeah, totally...

I'm so glad I slaved away so shekelstein could buy his 7th lambo

*dies*

Check in on your parents to make sure they aren't being duped by facebook slop.

art pieces

AI isn't art

Because there are legit people who do nothing but sit in front of their computer and play video games, and they make up a significant part of the gamer demographic. They often don't even watch movies or read books, it's just video games, often the same video game across decades.

The words I try and live by:

my NEET years were the best years in my life

based

I never quit

wanna play RO now?

Left

Remembering his youth, before PCs were even invented if he's in his 80s+

Right

remembering 10-15 years ago going by his hair

Damn... that really gets the noggin joggin

not having a gf

I'm assuming you don't live on your own. Having a gf does not solve the problems you think you have and in most cases tend to make them worse because women have no concept of money and they will spend all your money on frivilous things that will leave you with $15 in your account, not hers, when you get your next paycheck for rent. rinse and repeat.

nigga's living paycheck to paycheck and thinsk everyone else is as low-IQ as him

I've had fun for 2 decades almost every day and over 30 hours during weekends.
I doubt this tired family cuck could say the same.

what's wrong with spending your leisure the way you want? I was equally depressed while I was spending time with my friends that I am now, difference being now I don't feel like constantly comparing myself ot them

I will never get to that level.

The day I cant take care of myself I am offing myself. My grandad did it and so shall I. No point in living as a weak meatsack reminiscing about the past.

Simple as.

I've played pre-renewal so often I lost count. I think I must have gotten at least 50 chars to lvl 99 rebirth on lowrate servers. Never really liked renewal. Every now and then I still play, but it doesn't hook me like it used to.

PoE 1&2 are now my preferred grinding games and I would kill for a PoE style game with RO art.

Actually, ive been in a hot air balloon and held hands with a girl so now im set for life

there are legit people who do nothing but sit in front of their computer and play video games

What's wrong with that? Why do you normalniggers even come to this board?

Honestly, everyone these days is sheltered. Gamers are probably among the best off in our current society, because they actually have a hobby they enjoy and can spend their life on. I've caught glimpses of what it's like to be a post-pandemic normal and it's not pretty. They literally watch youtube shorts and talk shows all day.

It's only when I started trying to become a more "well-rounded" person that I discovered even the people I thought were superheroes had really just been stuck in a really nice rut for the past decade. They hadn't fundamentally done any better than me, just that the drain they ended up circling had a few more friends and social events than mine.

last names of these 2 men?

I don't even work nigger. I lied to the military about having developed a condition that I already had before going in, and now they pay me livable disability after getting out.

How are you planning to do so? My health is rapidly deteriorating but I'm too much of a pussy to do anything.

One time, when I was chatting with my dad, he showed me a t-shirt he was thinking of buying, and I had to point out that it was some terrible AI art, six fingers on the hands and everything. He was surprised I could spot it immediately.

Why is the left better than the right when they're both going to be dead shortly regardless?
Is this retard trying to suggest happy memories will change that in any way whatsoever?

8 hours of work (remote) in front of PC

8 hours of gaman and watching youtube in front of PC

Yep. Every day.
Though I play many different games

wanna play PoE2 together?

Chuck and Cheese

Left - High off his balls on the morphine drip, reminiscing about the time that he parachuted into a couple and terminated the woman's pregnancy with a flying kick

Right - Remembering the time he opened an email from his grandson with a link to pen island

From my experience, this pic is wrong because the old man with the family and the accomplishments should be sad(or atleast angry or scared) as well.
I have yet to meet an old timer with a family who feel like this when they are about to kick the bucket.
Its either a sense of defeat, or fear about dying. Usually, the ones who have no descendants are more cooperative and chill because they had and have nothing to lose, and they dont care. The other ones are constantly shidding and fardding about their inevitable death.

T. Worked as a male nurse for 8 months in a hospital

Never bothered with renewal or 3rd class shit either. I still play on a 5x rate or whatever to this day since it's not going away for good, but yeah admittedly I only play once or twice a week generally.. perfect game to listen to some music, have some drinks and just grind. I stopped looking for alternative games for this but one can hope I suppose

people tend to withdraw for a good reason like already being ostracized in their youth

I'm married and have done skydiving. This is an idiotic false dichotomy used by smoothbrains to pretend they're interesting.

I tried this good ol' "go outside" routine and you know what happened?
fuck all
what am I supposed to do, talk to randoms? Only scammers or guys advertising some shit restaurant do so

the horror

Blyat!

Reminder that normalfags/boomers are such NPC's that having a lot of free time actually drives them insane, they are not able to actually just be at home and enjoy themselves.

So many boomers have no idea what to do after retiring and people actually went insane during the covid isolation (that TOTALLY didn't happen) because they had to stay indoors for a bit.

As long as you are not poor, unhealthy, unhappy I think you are a successful human being.

find someone withdrawn (like me)

try to be the change I want to see

reach out to said person and offer kindness

they are unreceptive

in fact they are natural drawn to manipulative groomers and abusers

watch person fall down holes over and over while unable to do literally anything about it

Huh.

Simple but true post.

you can say this about any hobby

I am so glad I spent all of those years in hema

*dies*

I am so glad I spent all of those years reading those books

*dies*

I am so glad I spent all of those years painting those models

*dies*

I am so glad I spent all of those years throwing and hitting those balls

*dies*

I am so glad I spent all of those years jumping out of the sky

*dies*

I am so glad I spent all of those years building those mini dioramas

*dies*

I am so glad I spent all of those years looking at my toy train go around in a circle

*dies*

I am so glad I spent all of those years watching tv

*dies*

etc etc

BUT I WAS LE NICE GUY???

people tend to withdraw for a good reason like already being ostracized in their youth

I withdrew because I didn't like anyone. When I was in high school, I'd just sit by myself. Anon Babble (in 2025) reminds me of a lot of high school. Everyone is fucking stupid, and I don't want to speak to any of them. Their presence on Anon Babble tells me that the outside world is horrible too, or they wouldn't have come here. It's horrible because everyone out there is like them. They can't see themselves at all.
It's whatever because I filter like 99% of the shit that appears on this board. Fucking NPCs.

I got a girlfriend this year finally and fucking regret it. Breaking up is going to be hard but I want my fucking time and energy back.

funny how growing up thinking people will never love you will make you think no one will ever love you as an adult. just bee urself :^)

Fuck man. Now I feel bad. I meant being really old to the point you can't take care of yourself and can't tell left from right. If you are young just try your best to spend as much time with family. Hope you get better.

I will either take a shit tonne of sleeping pills though or just hang myself though if you really want to know. Death doesn't scare me - never has. It's either like before you were born, or there is something - either way its a win win.

Guy on the right is sad because he will never once again experience being in front of a computer and enjoy life like that

Guy on the left is happy because his life is over and don't have to get cucked while doing parachuting again

perfect game to listen to some music, have some drinks and just grind.

Yeah, RO is perfect for that. It's just the right level of engagement to zone out to.

What classes do you usually play? What are your favorite grinding spots?

Oh I get it, which is why I gave up and just keep everyone at arm's length these days. It's much easier.

lmao

This is how it looks. If you get rid of everything, you don't have to read any of it. The NPC motherfuckers come to this site to post into the void. It's not even like I scroll past their shit, and it's not visible.

If you're talking about a girl, no girl ever wants to date the kind of guy she tells you she wants to date. Ever. If you ever take advice from your mom about dating, she's just telling you the person she wants you to be as your mother, not the person that actually gets girls. Women genuinely don't even know that they're lying when they do it.

lmao he actually subtracted the years

Yeah, there's a lot of shitty people in the world who DONT want their lives to improve.

The NPC motherfuckers come to this site to post into the void

You mean like you did with your blogpost, normalnigger?

sleeping pills though or just hang myself

Jesus I'd never go through with that. I don't want to live but I'm too much of a pussy to die. Sometimes I wish some gangbanger high on cocaine or whatever just put a bullet through my skull randomly while I'm commuting.

everyone but me is a problem , see because me ? is very smart and not like the others and they are stupid !
i was 12 years old once too.

get bullied in school

become socially isolated

"wtf you can't do that"

are normalfags actually this stupid

everyone but me is a problem , see because me ? is very smart and not like the others and they are stupid !

Not him but yes. I'm 34

But normalfags says that being bullied build characters and helps you?

Left doesn't actually exist. Women are not romantic beings. You will never be in love. You will, at best, marry some used up roast beef and spend the rest of your existence in misery wagecucking to support her hateful ass and disgusting children.
Choose life. Choose escapism. Choose videogames. Choose drugs. Choose dying young.

normaniggers are under the impression that confidence is something you turn on like a switch rather than result of being accepted

Don't enjoy hobbies, that's bad because....BECAUSE IT JUST IS OKAY!

Instead you are supposed to just work, swoon over girls, fuck and die!

this
I traveled the world in my 20s, barely working because I understood in high school that living your damn life is more important than working. I've been in orgies in Asia where I'm the only male because I understood women adored me there, and basically just lived my life with hyper awareness understanding how this world works and how to get pleasure from it not worrying about shit.
And yet 99% of my free time to this day was spent gaming/anime/alone in my room all day every day. It's almost like if you travel to another country for 14 days and have a million experiences and memories that will last a liftetime, there's still 20,000 more days of your existence to go. Like yeah I'm gonna be in my room doing shit to pass the time the vast majority of the time. In a week I'll do things with people including go mini golfing, eat at a restaurant, hit the arcade, go on multiple walks with my dog, maybe even take people on a nature walk. That's still only like 1/6 of my existence for that week. The fuck do you want me to do for the other 5/6 of that week? I'm gonna be in my fucking room in front of a PC.

miserable people circlejerk

Go to Anon Babble you boring fucks.

Things like ropes and pills can take way longer than you'd think. Jeets kill themselves on the rails on accident all the time and it's over in seconds. I'm not suggesting anything, but it wont be quick if you do anything that's easy to do.

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why are there 100 replies to this
die Anon Babbleniggers

Almost like that's bullshit and some people will never make it without external support.

Anon Babble website because Anon Babble world

That's because they don't understand the idea that charisma is just something that some people naturally have. If you don't have natural charisma, no amount of practice is ever going to fool anybody.

Same crap with anime, movies, and tv shows. Video games aren't different, people are obsessed with that stuff as well and this is just hypocrisy

some bait works better than others

Anon Babble website i'm afraid

Why do liars like you always say stuff like this as though it's something anyone can easily do?

nigga thinking about the vidya kino he wanted to finish

why are there 100 replies to this

Maybe I replied to this thread because you were in the other one. Just kidding. I can't tell any of you apart and you're all equally stupid.
You posting here despite not approving of the thread means the filtered section is awful. Thanks for that update.

My most fond memories are just playing vidya with my friends rather than doing outdoor activities and crap like that.

slop subject

ai slop

yup, it's slop

Probably designing his dream game in his head.

he's probably telling the truth, but neglects to mention daddy paying his way is the only reason he was allowed to fuck around for 10 years

I like the ASPD ones for grinding generally, but I did make an SD sinx that can one shot a lot of interesting mobs including succubi. I'm leveling a stalker with icepick atm. I dunno about favorite maps outside of nifflheim, but I try switch it up a bit when leveling anyway.

Because while you were wasting time in high school/college, I secured my future because I was born with a superior brain.

have a family

die

lol

some people cannot live life on the left because theyre losers, not because of their choices, but their innately bad at everything they try doing. people dont have agency to be productive or live exciting lives, their brain actively goes against any notion of freedom in assumption for survival

I'd rather experience the best of video games over anything else.

I secured my future

a small loan of 6 gorillion dollars

I'm so glad I got married and had the woman divorce me and steal all my money

*dies*

idgi
why the man on the right is an old bald man when he was young

having a smart father doesn't make you smart. if you do think that, then you're just proving my point.

Wait, so you're telling me that random shitheads who bully kids for no genuine reason aren't actually noble people who are actually attempting to course correct the people they bully? Did Anon Babble lie to me?

You could do it right now if you wanted, it's never too late. Get your CDL, work for 5 years, invest literally all of it(you don't need to gamble to invest), quit, get a low effort part time job, never work full time ever again. This is assuming you have 0 help, no family, no friends, it's just you vs the world.
Now imagine you did something like this when you were 18 instead of having a retarded baby brain "hurr wowie my life is just starting what the heck should I do!" nigger your life started at 15 when you became a high functioning human.

kek this 14 year old is really mad that someone called him a nerd once

lol

This but unironically

41.2k comments

Get your CDL, work for 5 years, invest literally all of it

ah so you did all of this in high school. interesting. so you actually are a retard since you dropped out.

Vast majority of humananity spent their lives plowing fields and then dying before 50 without even learning to read or travelling any further than the nearest town's marketplace.

T R V K E
Memories are gay anyway, who ultimately cares how you lived your life. Some worthless gooner faggot shut in and a president/scientist/doctor all will die and turn into worm food. The past literally doesn't matter. No, Jesus won't greet you at the pearly gates and hug you for doing well in your past. You just die and disappear.
Bonus round: a lot of people die prematurely and hilariously. Like, a car will run you over and you die, all your dreams and accomplishnents and career erased in an instant. This is fucking hilarious, you relatives will pretend to be sad for a few days and then move on. Or you get a virus and die. Or you get a heart attack and die. Or a blood clot. Lmao. Imagine clinging to something so fickle. Lmao some nigger will maul you tomorrow for 20$.

No, I graduated, and I don't have a CDL.

You are the most boring kind of nihilist. Real nihilists party all day

go outside

talk to other people

it's shit

Anon Babble lied to me again

Does that surprise you? Why are the 41.2k posts on Anon Babble any better? They aren't, and that's why I don't read most of them.

So then you're implying people just randomly gave you money because abraham maslow said you were a genius. You haven't actually explained why you were a financial warren buffet in high school to be living in your Beverly hills mansion that you now apparently own.

You're literally a loser lying to other losers on Anon Babble to try to impress them. Either that or your parents are rich and you didn't do anything to earn what you have.

nah, i watched my recluse neighbor say that shit and then he got his wish a month and a half ago.
fuck that, he made no effort to not feel anything but miserable

Wher did I say you can't party all day?

I do what I want, bitch.

No you don't. Clean your room

is left happy because he parashooted into a couple? or is he happy that his wife isnt there on his deathbed with him?

I already gave you a solution, and you choose to ignore it because you still have a baby brain to this day

no one above the age of 55 is a serious gamer (as of yet this will change soon enough)

Most of them are bots. Facebook in current year is just an ad farm where turdworlders dupe firstworlders with dementia into giving them clicks for Zuckerjew's payout.

normie thinks traveling the world is meaningful because uhhhhhhhh

you can have sex with third world prostitutes

wow so inspiring

says the genius who became a millionaire in high school

I don't just play vidya. Sometimes when it's nice outside I'll pull out the hammock and read manga outside.

Why didn't I.... spend more time.... slaving away for Mr. Goldbergstein.... uggggh *dies*

Damn Anon you must be pretty good at Dota

I don't have an option of starting a family because women are at best indifferent about me and at worst disgusted. My parents are dead and I have no friends so I have no one to travel or such with. If I didn't have video games and my other hobbies, I'd be sitting at home, staring at a wall all day.

I hate this shit idea that the only thing that matters when your old is great memories.

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Yeeeah basically I'm gonna keep sitting in my room reading books and playing vidya and fapping and I will never compromise on my comfort. Good luck with marriage or whatever though.

I'd be sitting at home, staring at a wall all day

that's how a lot of people in the past came up with their best ideas

No, I'm not. That's the worst part. You can spend your life playing something and never get where you want to. Like, I'd love to have been a Dota pro, but life doesn't work out like that.
I'm not sure why I even played a team game as a schizoid.

I've come to the conclusion im just retarded

there are men out there whose goal in life is to have a daughter

You can spend your life playing something and never get where you want to

wow, it's just like real life

Using AI to make this point

You are not even conscious.

take a video of the entire thing

Cameras should be made illegal and being filmed should be treated as the equivalent of assault you can never relax and wind down you have to always perform because someone could immortalize any fuck up no matter how slight. Phones were a mistake.

This. Phones invented amateur films, before that no one's fuckups had ever been caught on camera

I'm betting on age reversal technology in the next 40 years... or at least for some good VR tech so I can experience all that cool shit from my bed

I refuse to do anything cause white race betrayed me
Simple as
There's no race consciousness in the whites, no white brotherhood, no white identity, no white apartheid, no white culture. Most whites are retarded gay liberals or larping poltards. Absolute subhumans.

it's just like real life

Games are meant to be better than real life, and that's why we play them. I played Dota as a teenager up to my 30s, just to end up as a nobody. I play other games now, and I think my life is proof that there's something wrong with that kind of game. Someone can play a long time and stay in the same place, making it a complete waste of time.

These 'people' are soon gonna be using ai to generate their points to get more algorithm dopamine not even realizing their input has been reduced to nothing.

Bros I don't like memes or funny comics anymore. they all look like the same shit now. I hate how a.i shit has just flooded the internet with low effort generic shit.

If you don't like cameras, leave public space.

Link to the video?

Why are those two old men sleeping together?

I hate how a.i shit has just flooded the internet with low effort generic shit.

If you hate it then why don't you make something?

So true before 2007 everyone walked with demon screens that are always connected to the global forum in their pockets and home cameras are exactly the same experience as smartphone cameras glad you are very smart.

h-heh I'm sure in 40 years the 50 billion population of browns will totally make elixir of youth for me ;^)

What does that got to do with anything? I just don't want to see generic dogshit everywhere.

I remember being bullied in middle school over 15 years ago more clearly and vividly than I remember last week
I remember everyone in my grade 4-6 classes and everything they did like it was yesterday but I don't remember what I had to eat for dinner 5 days ago
Why do I still think of them after all this time?
Why can't I move on?

What does that got to do with anything?

It makes you a hypocrite who only enjoys complaining. Reply after I filter this image below your post and also the one you posted. I await the shitskin NPC replies to me that are sent to the void.

all bots btw
Faceberg is just bots posting AI art and bots replying in the comments.

AI slop

OP is a FAGGOT

This is a bot by the way.

the most fucked up part is that not a single one of those people even remembers you, and if they do, they probably thought you two were friends

parachuting in to assassinate a young couple

Vs

comfy wfh job

Both of them die, what is the difference? All is dust.

Withdraw all of my money

Book one-way trip to Chile or some Arabic country

Risk being robbed and killed to truly live my life

I'm such a coward living in the U.S. :/

Work part time

Get payed well

Only need to work like 3 to 4 days a week

Get the rest of the time off to jerk off play vidya hang out with friends and make art

Parents are totally cool with it too

Good relationship with my whole family.

Am I doing it right?

My life peaked when i was a kid. Everything after 2006 was bullshit.

You cannot help adults, the damage is done, you would react the same. You need to find someone like you back when you were a teenager, and stop him from becoming like you

Groom him into becoming a normal well adjusted adult

There's a certain irony in someone trying to convey a message about missing out on life by telling AI to make the comic instead of making it themselves.

the same video game across decades

Holy fucking BASED.
If a scientist spends his whole life in the lab, it's quirky, but le good. If a man goes to work on an oil rig for a year nonstop, it's also le good. But it's only "good" because w*men get profit from these.

Terminally online permavirgin in his parents' basement loudly yells "AI bad!"

unironically suggesting people groom kids on Anon Babble

they really are here, aren't they

Why is no one talking about the part where they're both dead and nothing matters because the great equalizer takes everything away anyway

Anyone who thinks the future will be anything but worse is part of the problem. If you took the entire populace of Anon Babble, could you make anything? No, and that's what the world will be like eventually.
Just be glad that you won't have to see that future.
You can actually kind of see it while using Anon Babble: The slaves just shout loudly to be heard, so you listen to one, and you regret it. They have nothing worth hearing. I think we're living in the future.

h-heh I'm sure in 40 years the 50 billion population of browns will totally make elixir of youth for me ;^)

1)brown population growth is almost as bad as the white/asian one. You should be more scared of the blacks.
2) private anti aging science is being done everywhere right now. Billionaires don't want to die either you know.

10k hours

The time necessary to master a skill. Did you become a world-famous player?

It’s not “leisure” if you don’t have a job

Groom him

people unironically don't expect women to have to work, but they literally still do have to work anyway unless their husband makes like 200k a year

if only there was anything to prevent this from happening

Everything's leisure when you don't have a job.

I've played much more than 10k hours.

Did you become a world-famous player?

No, and I'm a Anon Babble poster. I was a Anon Babble poster when I started.

based

she's just telling you the person she wants you to be as your mother

Holy fuck, nailed it

I was -138 years old at some point.

Actually I have far more beautiful memories tied to my computer than anything else in life and I've had 3 relationships, played sports competitively and traveled a fair amount of times
You got brainwashed op

relationships

Impossible. Women are complete and total dogshit. They will always find and excuse to not like you or not engage with you. You can have super high chemistry or non at all, you can be ugly or look hot, doesn't matter. Women should all be killed. They deserve it.

Playing video games is the way to happiness. Humanity is fucked unless we completely enslave or eliminate females.

the outside world can't compete with the computer and the internet

t. Jaded fag who didn't get a mahjong gf

Every a.i faggot without exception is a brain dead coomer who love a.i only because it shits out barely passible porn for them.

Maybe that's the only way. Fuck women. Women of all ages should be taken advantage of

BUT THATS LE SOMEONE'S DAUGHTER!!!!

And? It's not mine. They deserve all the horrible nasty things to ever happen to them.

More like everyone and their mothers in certain countries

Go hiking, cycling and bouldering

Good feel afterwards so I can focus on vidya

This is the life.

basically in the same situation as me. just keep earning, keep saving, and wait for an opportunity to present itself

Some hobgoblin in his late 30s approaches a barely legal 9/10 randomly in public

Spaghetti flies everywhere as the marinara run down his legs

It's no wonder you got filmed lmao

32 and just coasting through life at a dead end job

still living with parents

barely have friends and the ones i do i rarely see

dont have any subscriptions never work out

never had a girlfriend and never want one

spend a lot of time making fun of losers who play dnd because it's gay

living my own life staying in my own lane

being realistic is jaded

nope. women deserve to be mistreated. I am glad women get pumped and dumped by chad. Treat all women like shit.

Grooming as in doing the job their parents should do but are not because millenials are a generation of adult children, steering the social outcast kid towards the path of being normal is not the same as sexual harassment

I really wish I lived in a place where all of that was close by. The closest hiking trail is half an hour away and there isn't any rock climbing/bouldering for milsed

most of that time is spent queueing for matches